1/5
On June 19th, we visited the YMCA in West San Gabriel Valley, arriving around 1:00 PM. Since our previous three visits did not require life vests, we assumed the same policy applied this time. My daughters were enjoying the pool until Valarie Gomez, the branch owner, arrived.
While enforcing policies is important, it should be done consistently. My older daughter knows how to swim but cannot swim for extended periods, while my younger daughter was fine with wearing a life vest. However, the life vest provided to my older daughter was so uncomfortable that she started crying when they made her wear it. No one seemed to care except me, so I swam over to Valarie Gomez to discuss the situation. She was dismissive, not looking at me while I spoke and insisting she had to scan the pool.
Frustrated, I asked her about the rules. She pointed to a policy sign across the pool, which was vague about swimming proficiency tests. I explained the situation to my daughter, and suddenly, Valarie Gomez approached us, no longer needing to scan the pool. She told my daughter, "You have two choices: either wear a life vest and stay in the pool or leave the pool if you refuse to wear one." This upset me, as her tone was inappropriate for addressing an eight-year-old. The YMCA is supposed to be family-oriented, and the owner should be more kid-friendly. My daughter became even more upset, crying harder.
Frustrated by her crying and Valarie Gomez’s unprofessional behavior, I told my daughter to get out of the pool so we could leave. Due to the wet conditions, it was difficult to remove the life vest, and I had to push her a bit to help her get out quickly, fearing more trouble over the life vest rule. My daughter, now even more distressed, sat on the pool edge crying. A lifeguard came over to talk to her, but I told him to leave her alone. He then accused me of abusing my daughter, escalating the situation.
Valarie Gomez intervened again, trying to kick me out. Furious, I challenged her. She made a scene, rushing to the exit and instructing the front desk to call the police. My daughter is now traumatized and never wants to return to this YMCA.